Let me clarify that this isn't just another article or post advocating the idea of "doing what you enjoy." It's a genuine reflection of the prevailing vibes that resonate with a lot of us. Last year, when I embarked on a path that deviated from the conventional route of preparing for exams or seeking internships, I could sense the weight of expectations. The mix of excitement and energy carried me through, but there were numerous moments when I questioned whether I should be dedicating my time and effort to what I was doing at that particular moment. And when things didn't go as smoothly as I had hoped, the clouds of doubt grew even darker.

In an attempt to keep up with the race of societal expectations, I briefly veered off course and delved into coding preparation for a month. However, it didn't take long for me to realize that it wasn't my true calling. I yearned for what I had been doing before, the very activities that I had convinced myself were not what I "should" be doing due to perceived risks and the fear of falling behind.

But here's an important realization: winning every race is not a prerequisite for a fulfilling life. In fact, when we contemplate "What we should be doing," it's crucial to shed the notion that SHOULD implies conforming to external or self-imposed expectations. The pressure to secure a job, buy a house, or meet societal standards shouldn't dictate our choices and happiness.

To all those individuals in their early twenties, I want to impart a powerful message—be true to yourself. Let your "should" be a representation of your own dreams, aspirations, and desires, rather than being defined solely by the expectations of others.

PS: I apologize if this reflection hasn't resonated with you or captivated your interest. Nonetheless, I felt compelled to share my thoughts, as I believed it was something I should express. Thank you for your understanding.

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